Economics Run Amok: What’s Your Price?


Freakonomics is no stranger to studying prostitution, as discussed in Superfreakonomics. We are slightly less familiar, however, with a gray area of prostitution — “dating websites” that connect rich customers with attractive poor customers. Though these are by no means a new phenomena, a website has recently come to our attention that uses a dating website platform to ask what we all wonder about in one context or another: what’s your price? auctions off dates and claims to be inspired by the charity dating model. It is divided into two halves: “Date Generous People” and “Date Attractive People” — apparently you’re either looking for one or the other. Upon a cursory read, the generous users seem to be overwhelmingly male, and the attractive users overwhelmingly female (and pictured in bathing suits). Each profile includes an “About Me” section and a “First Date Expectations” section. Several “attractive” members, it should be noted, specify that they will not fly Economy Class.

The homepage states:

Stop wasting time. Successful and generous people will pay for the chance to impress you on a first date. Traditional online dating can cost you both time and money. Here, you‘ll enjoy meeting people who will fight to show you they are worth your time.
Join Now, it’s 100% Free

Founded by Brandon Wade, the site purports to simply be upholding the tenets of capitalism. Wade describes himself as a graduate of MIT and the founder of websites and  Are you noticing a theme here? In his own words:

When capitalism is mixed in with dating, all of a sudden people start concluding “it must be prostitution.” But does paying money for a cup of coffee every morning mean Starbucks is engaging in prostitution? Does paying for gas every time you fill up at the gas station mean that Mobil or BP is pimping? Does donating money to the Church every Sunday morning equate religion to prostitution? Obviously not, and obviously buying a First Date isn’t either.

The original homepage included a man surrounded by five women holding price tags; it has since been changed to something more demure. The site has three easy steps: uploading a profile, negotiating a price, and setting up a date. It also includes some helpful dating etiquette reminiscent of craigslist warnings:

* Do Not pay or ask anyone for payment prior to meeting for a date
* If someone asks you to send money by Western Union, report them immediately
* Generous members are expected to pay for the date (there’s no going dutch here)
* Our advice: Pay 50% of the date at the start of the date, and 50% at the end
* Do Not accept personal checks or cashier’s checks – there’s just too much fraud

One wonders, though, what services are being provided in a date. Conversation? Company? Something more? The “First Date Expectations” section on individual profiles doesn’t clarify much, either.  In his blog posts, Wade often quantifies aspects of dating in terms of age, gender, income, etc. He gives insights into what kind of money is involved in these dates and writes:

Results of our study:  Men seeking casual or no-strings-attached relationships paid an average of $121 for a first date, whereas single men looking for serious long-term relationships paid an average of $194 for the opportunity of finding love.  However, men who seek only casual or no-strings attached relationships tend to be serial daters and more prolific, paying for first dates over 2.1 times more, than commitment-minded men. has been featured on several media outlets, including HuffPo, the San Francisco Chronicle and Fox Business News.

So we must ask, dear reader, what’s your price?

[HT: Lewis Robinson]

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  1. CS says:

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  2. Nanno says:

    What’s new about an online escort service?

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  3. Laura Conrad says:

    >> the site purports to simply be upholding the tenants of capitalism.

    I suspect it’s the *tenets* of capitalism that it upholds.

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  4. Sarah says:

    Oh, I am so naive (and subsequently, single). I still like to believe that people actually desire to love one another and be loved for who they are, relationship challenges and all. I get that this site is not intended for my use, but I guess I’m still amazed just how many people have given up on “strings attached”.

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    • Artemis says:

      There’s a presumption in your viewpoint when you say “how many people have given up on strings attached”. It presumes that all people want strings attached and only take no strings attached when they can’t have what they really want (ie – “give up”). Is it really so hard to imagine that others might have other desires and goals in life than your own? Is it not possible that their lifestyle is their first choice a choice that perhaps from their viewpoint you are the one who has given up and settled for something?

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  5. Impossibly Stupid says:

    Not knowing what a “date” is in this context, it is hard to set a price on the value. If it’s just buying my time, it’s more like a short-term consulting gig. My price: $100/hour, 4 hour minimum. Clearly I’m overpriced for the market, but you have to wonder why “Generous People” would pay so little if it *isn’t* prostitution.

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  6. Jason kernan says:

    This website is just plain good old prostitution/escorting, dressing it up as a first date ain’t fooling anyone!!!

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  7. Roger says:

    Sorry ladies of, even though some guy who has a financial interest in you not feeling like a whore says you aren’t a whore, you are still a whore.

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  8. carlosmx37 says:

    Id love to be paid ten dollars for a couple hours of terrific conversation,..and Id pay,mm,…sorry Im so old fashioned and out dated guy,..I pay all the dinners note,and feel embarrased for paying a girl for listening me!…Better that she asks an expensive dish and a cake ,wrapped for taking home.
    Does the price include a goodbye kiss ?

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    • cauldwell says:

      Carlosmx37, you make two intriguing assumptions: 1) that if you were paid, it would be for a couple of hours of terrific conversation; 2) that if you were to compensate a girl, it would be for her having listened to you. Why? It’s a far better investment to pay to listen to what she has to say, or get paid for listening – you get money AND information, and don’t end up boring a pretty lady.

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